A little-known poem about a mother’s love – analysed by Dr Oliver Tearle
Christina Rossetti (1830-94) wrote many sonnets, so it should come as little surprise that, like Keats and Wordsworth before her, she wrote what we might call a ‘meta-sonnet’, about the virtues and values of the sonnet. Here, Rossetti focuses on the ‘first Love’ in her life, her mother.
Sonnets are full of love, and this my tome
Has many sonnets: so here now shall be
One sonnet more, a love sonnet, from me
To her whose heart is my heart’s quiet home,
To my first Love, my Mother, on whose knee
I learnt love-lore that is not troublesome;
Whose service is my special dignity,
And she my loadstar while I go and come
And so because you love me, and because
I love you, Mother, I have woven a wreath
Of rhymes wherewith to crown your honoured name:
In you not fourscore years can dim the flame
Of love, whose blessed glow transcends the laws
Of time and change and mortal life and death.
Rossetti’s poem is a variation on the Petrarchan or Italian sonnet, in that its second quatrain is not an enclosed rhyme (abba) but instead offers alternate rhymes (baba). The sonnet, in full, rhymes abbababacdeecd. This variation frees the sonnet from its shackles of courtly love – and occurs, incidentally, at the point in the sonnet when the focus becomes clear: this is not a poem about sexual desire or unconsummated longing, but the unconditional, reciprocated love of a mother for her daughter, and vice versa: ‘And so because you love me, and because / I love you, Mother…’
We’ve remarked elsewhere that Rossetti’s poetry often utilises repetition – almost flat, redundant repetition – which has an almost deliberately anticlimactic effect on the poem. She puts this to good use here, as the first quatrain brings us back to sonnets, love, and the heart several times:
Sonnets are full of love, and this my tome
Has many sonnets: so here now shall be
One sonnet more, a love sonnet, from me
To her whose heart is my heart’s quiet home
‘Sonnets are full of love’ is sentimental even by Rossetti’s standards (although elsewhere she avoids lapsing into out-and-out sentimentality), but it’s a poem which celebrates the ever-giving love of the mother for her child, so it’s difficult to see how it could avoid being so in the hands of Victorian poetry’s greatest poet of sentiment.
About Christina Rossetti
Christina Rossetti (1830-94) was one of the Victorian era’s greatest and most influential poets. She was the younger sister (by two years) of the Pre-Raphaelite artist and poet Dante Gabriel Rossetti. Christina Rossetti was born in London in 1830, and lived with her mother virtually all of her life. She never married. Many of her poems engage with the question of religious belief, such as ‘Good Friday’ (a poem about honest religious doubt as much as faith) and ‘Twice’, about the importance of Christian forgiveness and redemption (the poem is spoken by a fallen woman, a theme that can also be seen in ‘Goblin Market’).
Christina Rossetti composed her first poem while still a very young girl; she dictated it to her mother. It ran simply: ‘Cecilia never went to school / Without her gladiator.’ Goblin Market and Other Poems was the first collection of her poetry to be published, and it was the book that brought her to public attention. The title poem is a long narrative poem which is often taken for a children’s poem because of its fairy-tale motifs and imagery; Rossetti, however, always denied that the poem was intended for children. Several of the poems in the volume, such as ‘Remember’ and ‘When I am dead, my dearest’, were composed before she had turned twenty.
Rossetti’s influences were as diverse as the many poetic forms in which she wrote: sonnets, ballads, narrative poems, lyrics, even Christmas carols (‘In the Bleak Midwinter’ to name but the most famous). She was remarkably prolific: the Penguin edition of her Complete Poems runs to well over 1,000 pages and is a treasure-trove for the poetry-lover.
Rossetti died in 1894 and was buried in Highgate Cemetery where fellow Victorian writer George Eliot had earlier been laid to rest. She went on to influence a range of later poets, including Gerard Manley Hopkins, Ford Madox Ford, and Elizabeth Jennings. Philip Larkin was an admirer, praising her ‘steely stoicism’.
The author of this article, Dr Oliver Tearle, is a literary critic and lecturer in English at Loughborough University. He is the author of, among others, The Secret Library: A Book-Lovers’ Journey Through Curiosities of History and The Great War, The Waste Land and the Modernist Long Poem.
The more I read of her work, the bigger the fan I become. Christina Rossetti is a fine poet and like Eliz Bishop, she’s a great influence.
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I love these lines:
I have woven a wreath
Of rhymes wherewith to crown your honoured name:
Mothers are our first love…